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Melissa could see that Jen was steaming mad when she came out the main
door of their
school. She walked really fast and was staring straight ahead. Jen was Melissa's best
friend. They usually walked home together from school every day, but today Jen seemed so upset that
she walked right by Melissa without even seeing her!
"Jen, what's wrong?"
Jen stopped walking and looked a little startled to see her best friend
standing there. Melissa had wavy brown hair, big brown eyes, and wore round glasses which made her eyes look even bigger. Sometimes the
boys teased her about her glasses, but Jen just thought that Melissa looked very smart in
them.

"I could have punched that Brian just now!" Jen said. "It's not nice to
hit people so I just walked away. But, boy, he gets me so mad!"
"Oh, no, not Brian again," Melissa said with a sigh. "What did he do
now?"
"He said that I'm dumb because I take medicine for ADHD," Jen replied
with a sad voice.
Her eyes got a little watery, like she was going to cry. Melissa could see that her friend
was not only mad, but also her feelings were very hurt.

"Well," said Melissa, "I think that Brian is kind of dumb for even
saying that."
"Yeah, I know, but it still makes me s-o-o-o mad!" Jen said. The two girls
started walking down the sidewalk toward their homes. They were quiet for a while, and
Melissa was thinking.
"Know what, Jen? Taking medicine doesn't make anyone dumb. My dad takes medicine
for his high blood pressure, and he says it makes him feel better and he can do more
things with us. Like go camping."
"Yeah, that's right," Jen replied. "And besides, that dumb Brian takes
medicine for his asthma, to help him breathe better! So what does he know!"
The girls looked at each other and burst into giggles. Jen smiled and
looked more relaxed.

"Well, your ADHD medicine helps you pay attention better, right?"
Melissa asked. "So if it helps you, then it's a good thing."
"I guess so," Jen said. "I don't feel so fuzzy headed when I take it. It
helps me concentrate."
"Right," Melissa agreed. "And it helps you be less hyper, so you can sit
still and get things done. Right?"
"Yeah," said Jen, nodding her head. "Remember when I was spending like
three hours on homework every night, cause I'd get too antsy and couldn't stay focused?
Now it takes me one or two hours and I get it all done."
"Right, see?" Melissa said brightly. "So then it's helping
you."
"Yeah, I guess so. But sometimes I just wish I didn't have to take it," Jen said. She
looked away, and got a sad look on her face again. "Why do I have to have ADHD?
I wish I could stay focused without taking any medicine. Sometimes it makes
me feel like I'm...different. You know."
Melissa stopped walking and looked at her friend, her big brown eyes all serious behind
her round glasses. "Don't be silly!" Melissa said. "Just because you have
ADHD doesn't mean that you're different from anybody else. Hey listen, we're all different
in some way!"
Jen turned and started walking quietly again. She was looking down at the sidewalk.

"Look Melissa, you don't need to take medicine to help you pay attention. You can
focus just fine without any help. See, I am different!"
Melissa scrunched up her face, the way she always did when she was
thinking hard. There was nothing wrong with Jen, and it
didn't matter that Jen had ADHD. Jen was the best friend that Melissa ever had.
They shared everything and told each other everything. She felt
kind of bad because Jen felt bad.
Suddenly Melissa looked up, with a big grin spreading on her face.
"You're wrong about that!" she said to Jen. "I need something to help me
focus better too!"
"Huh?" Jen asked. "What are you talking about? You don't have ADHD."
"Don't you remember when we were in 4th grade, in Mrs. Johnson's class?"
Melissa said, her smile getting bigger.
"Yes I remember Mrs. Johnson's class," Jen replied. She gave her friend a
puzzled look.
"Well," Melissa said, "remember when I had trouble seeing the board, and
I had a real hard time in math? Mrs. Johnson figured out that I was flunking math because I couldn't see the
board! So that's when I got something to help me focus!"

Jen looked at Melissa's big grin. Then she looked at the big brown eyes
beaming at her from behind the big round glasses.
"Your glasses!" Jen said and started laughing. "That's when you got your
glasses!"
"Right!" Melissa said. "I need my glasses to help focus my vision. You
need ADHD medicine to help you focus your attention. So what's the big deal?"
Jen stopped laughing and just stood there, smiling. "No big deal, Melissa. You are
just the best friend in the world."
"So look Jen, I'll wear my glasses to help me focus, and you take your medicine to
help you focus, and we won't care what Brian or anybody else thinks. Deal?"
"Deal!" Jen said. "I'm not even mad at Brian anymore, it's not worth
it."
"OK then!"
Melissa looked down the block to their houses, right next door to each other.
"Hey, let's ask your mom if you can come over and play before we do
homework?"
"Sure! I get first turn on Play Station!"
"No way!" Melissa said. "I'll race you to your driveway, winner gets
first turn on Play Station!"
"Deal! Ready.....set......."
"GO!!"
Facts About ADHD Medications


- Some medicines for ADHD might make you have less appetite, or have a harder time falling
asleep at night. If that happens it's important to tell your parents and your doctor, so
the doctor can decide if you need a different type of medicine.
- Kids and adults who take medicine for ADHD are just like anybody else. They are just as
smart and healthy as anybody else. If anyone tells you differently, talk about it with
your parents and doctor. Usually those people who say mean things don't understand what
ADHD is or what medicine for ADHD does. They don't know any better!
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